Look at Values... A new perspective.
Are you left or right brained?
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You will identify how you are meeting these needs
You will choose to leave negative behaviours behind
You will get excited about life
You will get excited about the possibilities opening up for you
You will identify how you are meeting these needs
You will choose to leave negative behaviours behind
You will get excited about life
You will get excited about the possibilities opening up for you
What's important to you?
Now, I could get you to list everything and you'd say things like career, family, honesty, love, financial security, religion, spirituality, children, world peace, and so on - and it's true, these things are important to us - even though your personal list will be different to mine.
But underneath all those values is what drives us - our needs.
Certainty - we need to have some certainty in our lives...
Uncertainty - we also need some uncertainty or variety in our lives!
Significance - we need to be significant, important, appreciated
Love & Connection - we want love - but we often settle for connection
Growth - we need to grow and change
Contribution - we need to contribute to something bigger than our own self-interest
The first four are what Tony Robbins calls needs of the personality - we can meet these needs in positive or negative ways. Any negative behaviour that meets at least three of these needs at a high level will become addictive.
The last two are needs of the soul. We have to meet these needs to live a fulfilling life.
If you are not getting what you want in life - if you have recurring problems and a low level of satisfaction - then you are meeting your needs in a negative way.
Now, I could get you to list everything and you'd say things like career, family, honesty, love, financial security, religion, spirituality, children, world peace, and so on - and it's true, these things are important to us - even though your personal list will be different to mine.
But underneath all those values is what drives us - our needs.
Certainty - we need to have some certainty in our lives...
Uncertainty - we also need some uncertainty or variety in our lives!
Significance - we need to be significant, important, appreciated
Love & Connection - we want love - but we often settle for connection
Growth - we need to grow and change
Contribution - we need to contribute to something bigger than our own self-interest
The first four are what Tony Robbins calls needs of the personality - we can meet these needs in positive or negative ways. Any negative behaviour that meets at least three of these needs at a high level will become addictive.
The last two are needs of the soul. We have to meet these needs to live a fulfilling life.
If you are not getting what you want in life - if you have recurring problems and a low level of satisfaction - then you are meeting your needs in a negative way.
